What if the key to radical innovation isn't to copy your best competitors, but to obsess over what they do poorly?
Rory Sutherland, Vice Chairman of Ogilvy and one of the world’s leading consumer behaviour experts, dismantles the conventional wisdom of 'best practice.' He proposes a powerful framework called reverse benchmarking. The strategy is to find what market leaders neglect or find disappointing, and then make that the absolute core of your own excellence.
Key takeaways
- The famous "Don't Mess with Texas" slogan was originally an anti-littering campaign. Its aggressive tone was a perfect cultural fit, proving that softening a message can sometimes kill its power.
- Making something ridiculously enormous can transform it from an eyesore into a work of art. A small gas station is atrocious, but a massive one like Buc-ee's with 100+ pumps becomes a magnificent destination.
- Driving is a form of social education. It teaches a "social calculus" where you learn to weigh a small cost to yourself against a large benefit to others, a skill lost on those who only use public transport.
- Driverless cars take longer because they lack the social pressures of guilt and fear of retribution that guide human drivers. Other drivers simply don't behave courteously toward them.
- Traditional benchmarking is for losers because it leads to homogeneity and shrinking margins. Try "reverse benchmarking": find what the best in your industry do poorly or find disappointing, and then double down on that.
- Innovation can come from focusing on what competitors ignore. When one restaurant saw beer drinkers treated as second-class citizens, they introduced a "beer sommelier" to blow those customers' minds.
- A powerful innovation principle is to "make the thing that stays still move." Washington Dulles airport did this with mobile lounges that drive to the plane, saving fuel and simplifying expansion.
- You can manage crowd behavior by introducing ambiguity. To stop people from queuing at the gate too early, an airport announced that flights would board from one of two gates, making it pointless to line up.
- Beware of "option-to-obligation creep." A parking app is first introduced as a convenient option, but then the old machines are removed, forcing everyone to use it. What began as progress becomes a burden.
- The two-income household is a perfect example of an option that became an obligation. It didn't lead to more discretionary income for families; rising house prices simply absorbed the extra earnings.
- The effort you put into acquiring something increases its perceived value. This is the "IKEA effect." The friction of navigating the store and assembling the furniture yourself makes you value it more.
- A powerful sales technique is "disarming candor." A McLaren salesman once built immense trust by advising Jay Leno *against* buying expensive ceramic brakes for street driving, saving him $20,000.
- Social media has shifted status markers toward things that can be digitally displayed, like travel photos. The status of physical possessions you can't easily photograph has declined.
- A 'good job' has new variables. The freedom to choose where, when, and with whom you work are now valuable currencies that can outweigh a higher salary.
- Average ratings are misleading. A truly great experience is often polarizing—what's exceptional for one person is terrible for another. Look for divisive products to find true excellence.
- Using real customers in ads is risky because the reality might not be aspirational. Using an animal mascot, like the Buc-ee's beaver, brilliantly bypasses this "user imagery" problem.
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Buc-ee's and the surprising origin of 'Don't Mess with Texas'
The slogan "Don't Mess with Texas" surprisingly originated as an anti-littering campaign by the Texas Department of Transportation in the 1970s or early 80s. Its success is a case study in effective advertising, as its tone of "low key aggression" was uniquely suited to the Texan psyche. Rory notes that a suggestion to soften it to "Please don't mess with Texas" was rejected because it would have lost its power.
This slogan is now licensed by Buc-ee's, a massive gas station chain. Rory describes Buc-ee's as proof that Americans can take something atrocious at a small scale, like a gas station, and make it a work of art by making it enormous. He compares this to marching bands, which are appalling with few members but magnificent with 500. Buc-ee's can have over 100 gas pumps and a Costco-sized store selling everything from barbecues to deer corn.
The scale of Buc-ee's is so large that it changes behavior. Rory shares an anecdote about his ethical dilemma as a Brit seeing people leave their cars at the pump to go shopping. In the UK, this would be poor etiquette. But at Buc-ee's, there are so many pumps that they double as shaded parking spots, a practical consideration in the Texas heat.
The social calculus of driving
When using a Waymo driverless car, the journey often takes 50% to 100% longer than estimated. This may be because human drivers on the road are typically motivated by two things: fear of retribution and the guilt of inconveniencing another person. A Waymo removes both of these social pressures. Other drivers do not behave courteously toward Waymos, refusing to let them into traffic at junctions. Pedestrians also take advantage, walking in front of them knowing the car will stop.
This highlights an interesting point made by Rory Sutherland: driving teaches crucial social skills and a form of social calculus. A good driver learns to weigh the cost to themselves against the benefit to others. For example, if you are stuck in slow traffic, letting another car in from a side road costs you very little, so it is an easy act of generosity to perform.
A key part of this social interaction is acknowledging the kindness. The emotional response to giving a favor is tied not to the cost of the act, but to whether it is acknowledged. This is seen in the practice of flashing hazard lights as a 'thank you,' a custom that started with truck drivers in the UK and is now spreading. Without at least a wave, failing to acknowledge someone letting you in is considered bad form.
There are cultural differences in this on-road behavior. In the US, drivers tend to be more possessive of their lane, treating it like territory. In the UK, it is more common for drivers to let someone in if they are indicating. A concern is that as fewer young, urban people learn to drive, they miss out on this social education. Rory worries we are breeding a generation that lacks this 'domesticating influence' because they only use public transport.
We're breeding a generation of young urban people who can't drive. And therefore that sort of domesticating influence is lost. If you just sit around in public transport, you lose that social calculus.
How frequency turns driving from a System 2 to a System 1 task
The enjoyment of an activity like driving is directly linked to how frequently you do it. Driving in a place like London, for example, is often unpleasant because it happens infrequently and the experience itself is stressful. An activity is only truly enjoyable when it becomes an automatic, frequent habit.
Consider the experience of driving a rental car in a foreign country. The car is unfamiliar, and the local driving customs, like four-way stops, might be new. For the first day, the process is not enjoyable because it requires intense concentration. This type of conscious, deliberate effort is a System 2 cognitive task.
It's system two, not system one, to use a Kahneman phrase. It's only with frequency that driving becomes system one.
Only through regular practice does driving transition into an effortless System 1 activity, which is when it actually becomes pleasant.
Rory Sutherland makes the case for American cars
When driving an unfamiliar rental car, the first few hours can be fraught. Many city dwellers who only rent cars occasionally never get past this initial, alien phase to truly enjoy the experience of driving. One host, having just spent five days in Texas, assimilated quickly by getting a 6.2 liter V8 Camaro. The car's features, like cooled seats that can be activated remotely, are life-changing in 105-degree weather. The price difference between the US and the UK is stark, with a new model costing around $45,000 USD, significantly less than it would in pounds sterling.
Rory Sutherland expresses his unabated love for American cars, an opinion he admits is unfashionable in Britain. He is considering upgrading his Mustang Mach-E to the new electric Cadillac Lyriq. He recalls annoying a former German boss by championing the Lincoln Town Car as the world's best vehicle, especially for its comfort after a long flight. Rory argues that Europeans have an unhealthy obsession with a car's cornering ability, which is an impractical feature for everyday driving.
Acceleration is really valuable. You don't throw your passengers round corners at extreme speed. I don't drive as if I'm on the fucking Nuremberg ring. I like a little bit of speed and maneuverability, but I don't want all this about hurling things around hairpins.
He believes a good American car is superior because it prioritizes comfort and straight-line performance over handling sharp turns, which is a more realistic reflection of how people actually drive.
The problem with airports becoming giant shopping malls
A key issue with modern airports is that they have become too big. The shopping center component, once a novel feature, is now an obligatory part of the experience. This forces travelers to walk through what feels like a large mall, such as the Houston Galleria, just to reach their plane.
Finding opportunities in your competitor's disappointments
A useful marketing and innovation idea is called reverse benchmarking. Most companies benchmark themselves against their competition. However, this practice can be detrimental. The business guru Roger L. Martin argues that traditional benchmarking is for losers. It diminishes your margins by forcing you into direct competition. This hurts shareholders, and it also hurts customers by depriving them of choice and differentiation. Ultimately, the entire category loses value by becoming more homogeneous.
An alternative approach is inspired by Will Guidara, who ran the New York restaurant 11 Madison Park. His story is detailed in his book, Unreasonable Hospitality. In 2011, his restaurant was ranked number 50 in the world, and he aimed to become number one. To do this, he took his team to the world's top-ranked restaurant. Instead of copying what they did well, he looked for what they did poorly.
What I want to know, given that you've just been to the best restaurant in the world according to San Pellegrino, is what was a bit disappointing? Because we're going to double down on that.
This is reverse benchmarking. By focusing on what the best in the world find disappointing, you can find a unique area to excel and differentiate your own offering.
Find competitive advantage by excelling at what others overlook
A powerful strategy for innovation is reverse benchmarking. This involves identifying something that competitors have completely overlooked and then excelling at it. One restaurant owner noticed that while wine drinkers received special treatment with a sommelier and detailed explanations, beer drinkers were treated like second-class citizens. To change this, he appointed a coffee sommelier and a beer sommelier.
And instead they get a beer menu from the beer sommelier with suggested beer pairings. You know, the Citrus IPA goes really, really well with the cod or whatever it might be. Now those people, you've blown their minds.
This approach can be a generalized theory of innovation. Steve Jobs applied this by taking a tech industry focused only on capability and choosing to focus on aesthetics and usability, which everyone else ignored. This doesn't mean you can neglect the primary function; you still have to be in the top decile. But the real differentiation comes from excelling in the ignored area.
The Moxie Hotel chain is another example. They double down on the ground floor experience, making it a comfortable, welcoming space to work or relax. This solves a common problem for travelers.
After I've checked out of a Moxie, every other hotel makes me feel homeless... Whereas in the Moxie, you just hang out for another five hours and get on with some shit and order their coffee and you don't feel remotely unwelcome.
Fixing the frustrating parts of the travel experience
There is a natural benchmarking tendency in airports. For a time, the best airports were praised for being like shopping centers. Then, suddenly all airports adopted that model. Now, an airport like London City is considered incredible because it offers the opposite experience. You can be at the gate in six minutes with hardly any shops. Rory Sutherland notes that it is much easier to innovate the travel experience on the ground than in the air.
He points to a fascinating example at Washington Dulles airport, where the lounge itself drives to the plane.
So you get in something that looks like a room where you're all sitting down and you've got a few little tables and you're comfortable and then the actual lounge is on wheels and drives to the plane.
This concept aligns with a Soviet-era innovation principle from a technique called Triz, which is to "make the thing that stays still move and make the thing that moves stay still." The benefits are significant. Planes would not need to taxi to a gate, saving fuel. The airport could also expand simply by buying more vehicles, treating the space more like a car park than a building.
This kind of thinking can be applied to other parts of travel. For example, it's strange that hotels do not offer an external monitor for laptops to create a dual-screen experience. Similarly, the car hire process could be vastly improved with a concierge service. For a fee, someone could meet you at the arrivals gate with your keys and walk you to your car, eliminating the stressful experience of finding shuttle buses and waiting in long queues at an unfamiliar airport.
Eliminating the stress of air travel with a concierge service
At some airports in the Middle East, you can experience a special concierge service. Someone meets you right as you get off the plane, greets you by name, and takes your bags. They guide you through a special immigration area to an air-conditioned arrivals lounge with water and cool, cucumber-scented towels. The concierge handles all your documents and deals with the officials on your behalf. This service transforms the airport experience, which can often be strangely stressful and annoying, especially for frequent travelers.
The airport experience, if you do it frequently, does get weirdly stressful and annoying. Precisely. In a weird way. Because it's repetitive and there's that paranoia that you're only one lost bit of paper away from complete [disaster].
The flawed design and psychology of air travel
The experience of air travel is filled with small but significant design flaws that create stress. For instance, boarding passes are not sized to fit with passports, creating a constant juggle. A simple solution could involve a magnetic backing, similar to Apple's MagSafe, allowing the boarding pass to snap onto the passport for easy handling. Luggage design also contributes to the frustration. Many bags feature too many zippered compartments, making it difficult to retrieve items quickly. Rory Sutherland compares this experience to a frustrating encounter with fashion.
Every time you want to retrieve something, it's like making love to a goth, you know, there's just too many zips.
An open-top workman's tool bag offers a more practical alternative, as all items are visible and accessible from above. While some technological improvements, like new scanners that don't require removing laptops, are helping, the overall experience often feels regressive. Airports can feel like being back in school, where you are dictated to and forced to wait in queues. The supposed privilege of early boarding often just means waiting longer in an unpleasant air bridge.
Frequent flyers can experience an "inverse curve of tolerance." With more experience, they might try to cut their arrival time closer, but the process is largely out of their control. A long security line can ruin even the most well-planned trip. This insight led Rory to propose a novel airline concept. The idea is to pair a banal, low-cost flight with an extraordinary ground experience. Passengers would check in at a luxurious country house with a party atmosphere before being driven to their budget Ryanair flight.
Behavioral science can also offer clever solutions to airport annoyances. Dallas/Fort Worth International Airport hired a behavioral scientist who tackled the problem of passengers queuing at the gate too early. The solution was to introduce ambiguity.
You make the gate ambiguous until you were ready to board, so you don't know where you're supposed to go. So you basically say, 'Your flight to London from DFW is boarding from gate 47 or 48.' So you go, 'Well, there's no point in me standing in a queue because I might choose the wrong gate and I'll look like a prat.' So I'll go and sit in the coffee shop instead.
This simple trick encourages passengers to relax elsewhere until the gate is officially confirmed, reducing congestion and stress at the boarding area.
The art of finding secret shortcuts in public spaces
There are small hacks and shortcuts you can find in public spaces if you know where to look. For example, in one airport, there is a much smaller, secondary Pret a Manger tucked away from the main one that has no queue. There also used to be a hack for EasyJet at Gatwick where a pillar obscured a second check-in desk, causing that queue to move twice as fast.
This leads to an interesting theory about airports. People who fly infrequently are not particularly bothered about streamlining the process. However, frequent flyers, like George Clooney's character in the film Up in the Air, can become almost unhealthily obsessed with it.
An airport or a transport system could cleverly cater to these frequent users by building in secret shortcuts. The London Underground already has these, where the signposted exit is longer than a little-known tunnel. These shortcuts are not advertised because they couldn't handle the traffic. Instead, they exist as rewards for those in the know.
You simply allow them to be Easter eggs.
Travel hacks and the NASA-powered Indian takeaway
Rory shares some "Easter eggs" for navigating airports. At Amsterdam's Schiphol Airport, which he finds annoyingly large, most seating is intentionally uncomfortable. He compares the benches to those in New York City designed to prevent homeless people from sleeping on them.
They're precisely the inverse of the shape that a human spine is supposed to make. Some weird medieval torture device that's masquerading as a piece of art next to the street.
However, he reveals that Gate D2 has low, padded benches without armrests, making it a rare spot where you can lie down and rest. Similarly, at London City Airport, there is a quiet café and seating area near Gate 3 that most travelers overlook.
The conversation then shifts to high-quality takeaway food. Rory discusses Nostalgia Foods, a company started by Naresankara, a food scientist at Berkeley. Disappointed by the Indian food in the U.S., he developed a way to bring over chefs from Hyderabad to prepare dishes like biryani. The food is then preserved using NASA technology and shipped. Rory finds the result astounding. Other notable products include frozen parathas that are cooked directly from the freezer and a dish called haleem. He describes haleem as a "very meaty porridge," made from lamb and wheat grass, which can be customized with toppings like chili and ginger.
How changing the interface alters consumer behavior
It is difficult to change the behavior of millions of people directly because they are driven by habit. However, behavior can be changed wholesale by altering the context or interface people use to make decisions. The adoption of mobile phones illustrates this. It took over 20 years for them to become mainstream, partly because people initially found making a call on the street strange and early adopters were seen as show-offs. The context had to change before the behavior did.
Behavior is slow to change, but if you change the context or the interface which people use to make a decision, everybody's behavior changes.
This principle is visible in modern purchasing. At McDonald's, people tend to order more when using a screen versus speaking to a cashier. Rory Sutherland notes that anecdotally, more men order meals with two burgers on a screen because they feel less awkward than when ordering face-to-face. The screen removes the element of social judgment. This is a powerful insight, as it suggests the entire property market might be broken because everyone is forced to search for homes using the same simplistic, screen-based filters like location and price.
AI could represent the next major shift in interface, moving from screens to conversational interactions. Sutherland speculates that this could fundamentally invert the traditional advertising model. Instead of businesses advertising to find consumers, consumers could appoint AI agents to find things for them. The AI would handle the search process, effectively becoming an advertising agency for the consumer.
The natural direction of travel of an AI empowered world would surely be the other way around where consumers appoint agents to find them things to buy.
The sleeping bag problem: when experience doesn't match the promise
The process of finding what you like, whether in dating or music, should be iterative. You use what you find in the marketplace to refine your preferences over time, much like how algorithms on YouTube or Spotify learn what you enjoy. Sometimes, the experience of something turns out to be much better than its initial promise or description.
However, the opposite is also true. There are things where the promise and the actual experience are completely at odds. A classic example is camping equipment, particularly a sleeping bag. The initial promise is fantastic. When you buy it, you are impressed by how incredibly small and compact it is in its bag. You marvel at the engineering.
But then it's raining and it's 8 o' clock the next day and you've got to get the sleeping bag back in the bag wet. And it's a living fucking nightmare.
This illustrates the difference between things that are better than they appear on the tin, and things that look great but are a nightmare to live with. It highlights the conflict that can exist between the appealing promise and the harsh reality of the experience.
The conflict between over-promising and over-delivering
Advertising often creates a conflict between its promise and its delivery. It can over-promise to get customers in the door, which is an effective strategy for launching a business. However, this raises the question of how to achieve repeat purchases and customer satisfaction. The opposite approach is to under-promise and over-deliver. This entire dynamic relates to the broader fields of decision science and choice architecture, influencing how people search and make choices.
The case for polarizing hotels
Standard rating systems for hotels can be misleading because they average out preferences. A more interesting metric would identify the most polarizing hotels, as truly great experiences are often divisive. Anything that is exceptional for one group of people is likely to be deficient for another.
Rory Sutherland shares an example of a hotel in East Berlin located in a former police station. The rooms were old cells, so small that the bed was a platform built above the shower. There was only one black-and-white TV with a single channel.
It showed, and still does show to this day, The Big Lebowski on continuous loop. Now, if you'd turned up expecting the Marriott, it would have been literally traumatizing. On the other hand, if you wanted something that was an authentically Berlin experience...
This hotel invested in its communal areas rather than the rooms. In a central courtyard, there was a coffee shop where Rory had one of the best flat whites of his life. This trade-off highlights that focusing on a specific niche can create a remarkable experience for the right audience, even if it alienates others.
The true measure of a product's value is the repeat purchase
Nearly all businesses over-invest in customer acquisition and under-invest in customer retention. This is especially true for companies with short-term horizons, like those owned by private equity, because they are often obsessed with quantification. Acquiring new customers is simply easier to measure than retaining existing ones. In contrast, family-owned companies tend to focus more on retention because they have reputational skin in the game and longer-term goals of building a brand.
Retention is harder to measure and the results are slower to appear, but it is a powerful indicator of a product's true value. A key metric should be repeat purchases. For example, Amazon could have a "repeat purchase-o-meter" to show not just how many people bought an item, but how many people who bought it before decided to buy it again. This signals real satisfaction and utility.
To tediously go back to air fryers. Very simple question. If your air fryer broke, would you go and buy another one the next day? Yes. Now that's not true of yogurt makers.
This simple question reveals a product's value to the consumer. Some libertarian economists even argue it would be acceptable for the government to collect and share this kind of information to help people make better-informed decisions.
The IKEA effect and the value of effort
The effort required to acquire something often increases its perceived value and our loyalty to it. Rory suggests this explains why most people who buy an electric car stick with the category. It's not just about the car; it's about consistency bias, regret minimization, and sunk costs. An owner invests significant time and effort into learning the nuances of EV ownership, like charging. Having made that investment, they are more likely to continue reaping the rewards.
Part of it may be sunk cost, which is it took me three months of effort to become really good at owning an electric car... Having invested that cost, I'm more likely to actually reap the rewards.
This principle applies elsewhere. Rory mentions an investment bank, possibly Goldman Sachs, that intentionally creates friction in its hiring process. After six interviews, they don't offer the job; they wait for the candidate to call and ask for it, viewing it as a test of agency. Adding a degree of difficulty can be a good strategy.
This is known as the IKEA effect: the effort you put into acquiring something contributes to how much you value it. Rory compares this to the difference between buying cheap strawberries and picking your own. The effort involved in picking your own destigmatizes the low price. It feels like a reward for your labor, not just a low-quality product.
The effort you put into the acquisition of something contributes to the perceived value of the thing... I've put some effort into the creation and accumulation of this item. Therefore, the low price is partly a reflection of my own effort rather than just low product quality to begin with.
With IKEA, the effort is twofold. First, there's the assembly. But before that, there's the challenge of navigating the store itself, a large maze that forces you through every department to get to the one you want. This entire experience, from the disorienting store walk to the self-assembly, adds to the friction and, ultimately, the perceived value of the furniture.
How time and honesty define true luxury
Certain status markers can be counterintuitive. For example, helicopters might seem like a high-status item, but they actually signal that you are time-poor. A truly high-status mode of transport, like an airship or a blimp, suggests you have both money and an abundance of spare time. A hot air balloon takes this even further. It signals wealth, time, and a complete indifference to the destination, which is the ultimate luxury. This is similar to how different airline passengers react to a canceled flight. Students in economy might enjoy the adventure of a free hotel night, and the super-rich in first class can easily book another night at a luxury hotel. It is the people in the middle, in premium economy, who are the most stressed by the disruption.
Rory Sutherland notes a similar paradox in the status of yachts versus RVs. He questions why yachts are considered high-status while RVs are not, especially since most of the world's interesting things are on land. This leads to a discussion on salesmanship and building trust, particularly with wealthy consumers. A key technique is "disarming candor," where a salesperson openly admits a product's flaws. This counters the "too good to be true" heuristic and builds trust. For example, the YouTube channel Matt's RV Reviews effectively uses a format of "three things we like and three things we don't like."
A powerful example of this technique involved Jay Leno's experience buying a McLaren. When he expressed interest in expensive ceramic brake discs, the salesperson asked if he planned to race the car. When Leno said no, the salesperson advised against them, saving him a significant amount of money.
The guy said, are you planning to track the car? No. Don't need it. Let me save you $20,000 straight off the bat, because if you're driving around LA, they take ages to warm up. You'll end up hitting the car in front.
This act of down-selling is a brilliant way to establish long-term trust. It shows the salesperson prioritizes the customer's best interests over a short-term sale. People like Alex Hormozi are also masters of this style of sales psychology.
New currencies of status are changing the nature of work
Social media has fundamentally changed the currencies of status, not the human urge to display it. This idea was predicted by evolutionary psychologist Jeffrey Miller. He argued that status markers would shift towards things that could be digitally displayed. For example, travel has become more valuable as a status signal because you can photograph yourself at Machu Picchu while your friends are at work in the rain. In contrast, the status value of things like cars or other household possessions has diminished, unless they can be easily photographed.
This shift also applies to the status of a job. Previously, there was no debate that earning more money was better. Earning 100k in London was clearly superior to earning 50k. But today, the choice is not so simple. A young person might be offered 100k to work in London or 50k to work from Lisbon, Fuerteventura, or even the New Mexico desert. It's no longer a slam dunk to decide who has the better job.
For hundreds of years, the economics of employment were based on how long you worked and how much you got paid. The place and time of work were considered fixed. But now, technology has created a new employment market with more variables.
Suddenly you have this technical employment market where as well as free time, there's free where and there's free when. So if you can work where you like, when you like. And a colleague of mine, Brian Featherstonehaugh, said also if you can work with whom you like, all of those things are now negotiable value counters alongside the money.
This creates an opportunity for employers who can't compete with the massive salaries offered by firms like J.P. Morgan. They can attract talented people by offering lifestyle benefits, such as location flexibility or proximity to affordable housing.
The brand identity dilemma for apps like Uber
Delivery apps like Uber are expanding far beyond their original service. The Uber app in the UK now allows users to get almost anything delivered, from groceries and alcohol to pet supplies and retail electronics. You can even book courier services, trains, and coaches. However, this expansion creates a significant marketing challenge.
Rory Sutherland describes this as the "Starbucks/Pret dilemma." A brand becomes so well-known for one specific thing that it struggles to convince customers to use it for another.
"Pret is mentally known for food in the UK and they want to sell more coffee, and Starbucks is known for for coffee, and they want to sell more food."
This is a common marketing dilemma, almost a market-level version of the innovator's dilemma. While people are used to getting food delivered, convincing them to use a ride-hailing app for pharmacy pickups requires changing established habits. There is also a risk of diluting the brand's core identity. For instance, Starbucks was so focused on the incremental profit from food sales that it risked damaging its primary reputation as a coffee provider.
Another key issue with food delivery apps is the user experience of choosing what to eat. Users are often overwhelmed and confused by the number of options, especially in an unfamiliar city. Even after applying filters like "open now," it remains difficult to make a decision.
The shift towards less but better consumerism
The anxiety of choosing a meal on a delivery app highlights a common consumer dilemma: stick with a safe, known option or risk a unique local experience and potential buyer's regret. This taps into a broader shift in consumer behavior, which Rory Sutherland suggests is being influenced by GLP-1 drugs like Mounjaro. These drugs appear to curb various impulsive behaviors, not just appetite. Rory notes that data from Walmart and Visa indicates a flatlining of grocery food purchases, even with only 8-10% of the US population using these treatments. He questions what will happen when that number reaches 25%.
Rory speculates this could lead to a positive evolution in consumerism, pushing society toward a philosophy of "less but better." People might consume smaller quantities of higher-quality goods and become more mindful of their enjoyment.
The desirable direction of consumer capitalism, of which I'm something of a fan, is actually less but better.
This idea connects to a scene from the TV show The White Lotus. A character argues that as the most privileged people in history, they have a duty to enjoy themselves. Rory sees validity in this, suggesting it's almost disrespectful to one's ancestors and the less fortunate not to appreciate the privileges one has.
The ideal conversation size is between the Graces and the Muses
A critical concept to be aware of is how something that begins as an option can turn into an obligation. Rory explains that Nassim Taleb taught him the huge difference between the two. He uses social gatherings as an example. While he dislikes large drinks parties, he enjoys smaller dinner parties. He then shares an anecdote about a man named Wilson Plant, who had a specific rule for pub conversations.
Wilson Plant's rule was that a good conversation group should be sized "between the Graces and the Muses." He was referring to the three Graces and nine Muses of Greek mythology. His argument was that if a group at a pub table drops below three people, it's time to go home. Conversely, if it grows beyond nine, the group should split off to form another table. Rory agrees with this, noting that garden parties are better than indoor drinks parties because they allow people to wander off and form smaller conversational clusters.
When convenient options become mandatory obligations
There is a crucial distinction between having an option and having an obligation, a concept Rory learned from Nassim Taleb. A drinks party is an option; you can decide not to go if you don't feel like it. A dinner party, however, is an obligation because someone has prepared food specifically for you, making it difficult to back out without a good reason.
This distinction is important when looking at new technologies. For example, parking apps are first introduced as a convenient option alongside traditional coin-operated meters. This seems like progress. However, car park operators soon realize it's cheaper to eliminate the old machines, removing costs related to maintenance and theft. Suddenly, the app is the only way to pay. What began as a helpful option has become an obligation.
This sort of shit is starting to turn the world into a nightmare. The extent to which you're expected to have a smartphone and have the eyesight to use it and master a pace of change, which is actually imposed on us. It's not chosen by us.
This forced adoption creates significant problems, especially for older people. A similar issue exists at airports, where there is no middle ground between being fully able-bodied and needing a wheelchair. This lack of consideration for people who are elderly but not officially disabled is a monstrous failure of modern infrastructure, especially considering the concentration of wealth among older generations.
How the two-income household became an obligation
The two-income household is an example of something that started as an option and became an obligation. For a long time, couples could choose: both partners could work for a more luxurious lifestyle, or one could stay home while the other worked. During that period, it was still possible to support a household with children on a single salary.
The shift to two incomes was beneficial for property owners and the government, which now had twice as many people to tax. For the typical family, however, the result was a loss of about 40 hours of discretionary time each week. This loss of time did not come with a significant improvement in discretionary income because house prices rose to absorb the extra earnings. The financial gains were captured by landowners and the previous generation, not the people actually doing the work.
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The case for a land value tax to curb wealth inequality
While Rory Sutherland agrees with Gary Stevenson's insight that wealth is becoming unhealthily concentrated, he suggests a different solution. He believes that economics often relies on models that fail to capture the reality of inequality. His preferred approach is Georgism, which advocates for a land value tax. He argues that property ownership is unique because, unlike other assets like gold or tulips, one cannot simply opt for a substitute. If a job requires living in a major city, there is no escaping the high cost of land.
But I can't substitute for property at some level. If your employer demands you work in a major city... there's no escaping the depredations of rent seeking landowners.
A significant issue is how wealth and income are treated differently. Society tends to tax income discrepancies energetically, but wealth held in assets is considered sacrosanct. This creates a situation where income inequality might seem manageable, but wealth inequality is monumental. Texas offers an interesting model with its heavy land taxes, which makes property less expensive and prevents it from being used as an "extractive store of wealth."
This system has led to a massive redistribution of wealth from the hardworking young to the older generation. Rory illustrates this with an anecdote about a woman living alone in a house worth millions but having no disposable income. Her children, meanwhile, worry about basic expenses. This creates a perverse incentive for the younger generation.
What I do, to be absolutely honest, is get into debt, go off to Barbados, wait for your mum to die... Nothing you do working, let's say, as a school teacher...
Georgism proposes taxing unearned wealth from land
The economic philosophy of Henry George, also known as Georgism, had a brief but significant popular success in the United States. It is a very free market and capitalistic approach regarding the fruits of labor. Anything you create or build is yours to keep. However, it is highly socialistic regarding the ownership of land and other limited resources like oil. The game Monopoly was actually based on its principles to teach people about extractive rent-seeking.
The core argument is that individuals did not create the land, which was seen in the 19th century as God's creation. Therefore, you don't have a right to own it but are merely a custodian of it. In this system, you would pay a commensurate tax on the land you hold, while in its purest form, there would be no income tax at all. This philosophy has supporters across the political spectrum, including Milton Friedman, Vivienne Westwood, Richard Nixon, and Winston Churchill.
Rory Sutherland gives an example of how this plays out in Texas. Californians move there, buy cheap land, and are then hit with a massive land ownership tax bill. When they complain, the Texans' reply is simple.
That's why it's cheap. That's exactly why you pay 2.5% tax on it.
The problem with modern economic models is that their simplifying assumptions often become problematic. For decades, rising property prices in the US and UK were presented as a positive news story, which Rory describes as a monstrous misrepresentation of information. This may be a "luxury belief" held by property-owning journalists and politicians who benefit from the trend. Adam Smith originally identified three sources of wealth: land, capital, and labor. Later economists, to simplify their math, incorrectly treated land and capital as the same thing.
We'll pretend that capital and land are the same thing and they're not because capital is potentially limitless and you can create more of it. Land is effectively an artificial bottleneck. It's a rent seeking device.
The Downton Abbey theory of wealth redistribution
The perceived value of something is often linked to its cost. For instance, studies show that more expensive painkillers are interpreted as being more effective. Rory Sutherland shares this sentiment, noting he doesn't want a cheap solution for a serious headache.
I haven't got a 30p headache, I've got a £2 50 headache.
This illustrates a broader principle: the effort or expense of something should feel proportionate to the outcome. In the human brain, the
The power of placebo and the pursuit of pleasant surprises
The success of products like vapes may hinge less on their function and more on their cultural adoption. Rory Sutherland suggests that if vaping had been medicalized, with prescription-only access and sterile packaging, it would have seen a fraction of its success. The bottom-up trend, complete with marketing, flavors, and widespread distribution, was crucial for its adoption.
This same principle applies to non-alcoholic beer, which can be seen as a form of "placebo beer." The power of association may allow drinkers to experience some of the psychoactive effects of alcohol without consuming any. Rory explains this phenomenon, even sharing a personal anecdote of feeling a moment of panic while driving after drinking zero-alcohol beers, forgetting he was completely sober. He would love to see an experiment to observe if people's speech and body language loosen up from the placebo effect alone.
I think that when we drink and zero alcohol beer, we still enjoy some of the psychoactive effects of drinking alcoholic beer by the power of association.
When it comes to actual alcohol, it has a dual effect on honesty. According to work by Edward Slingerland, drinking alcohol improves your ability to detect deception in others while simultaneously reducing your own ability to deceive. This creates a situation where, as the saying goes, "in vino veritas" (in wine, there is truth). Rory theorizes this might happen because alcohol suppresses the literal, language-focused parts of the brain, allowing more intuitive faculties to take over. This shift may also explain why drinking can feel liberating; it quiets the overthinking mind and allows one to enjoy the simple physicality of being.
This desire to quiet the mind is reflected in travel trends, such as the rising popularity of all-inclusive resorts for burned-out parents. These resorts reduce the cognitive load of making choices. However, Rory argues for an alternative approach to holidays, one that optimizes for serendipity. His one rule for travel is that holidays where he rents a car are always better.
The problem with having a really planned holiday is that you don't get any surprises. In fact, you tend to get negative surprises.
Renting a car allows for pleasant surprises, like stumbling upon a great local cafe or a secluded beach. It provides the freedom to explore and escape, turning a potentially mediocre trip into a memorable one by creating opportunities for unexpected discoveries.
The curse of too much choice and other modern absurdities
Rory Sutherland explains that he often prefers vacationing on an island because it limits the number of things he feels obligated to do. This contrasts with a place like Tuscany, where the sheer number of attractions can feel like a curse when all you want to do is relax. An island constrains the available choices, which can be a relief.
This led to a discussion about hotel marketing. Rory once told Expedia that the designation "adults only" is terrible. While it's meant to signify a child-free environment, the phrasing suggests something more perverse. He humorously notes, "It makes me think I gotta spend my whole week in a gimp mask while a German dentist urinates on me." Better alternatives suggested online included simply calling it a hotel for "Grown Ups."
The conversation then turned to other modern oddities, like a Skims bra that features a fake nipple piercing. Rory described it as a "trompe l'oeil nipple piercing," pointing out the flaw in its design. He argues it creates a false promise, as it will ultimately disappoint people who are actually into piercings while not appealing to those who aren't.
He also shared an anecdote about the unique problems of the rich, recounting Calvin Klein's daughter's complaint. She found it off-putting that at the peak of a romantic moment, she would be confronted by her own father's name in large letters on her partner's underwear. Rory reflects on the absurdity of the situation:
My wife has never had to pull down my trousers to be confronted with Clive Whitmore written across the elastic band in huge letters. You can imagine that's a bit of a turnoff, isn't it? It's slightly alarming. It doesn't set the mood.
Why animal mascots are a brilliant cheat in advertising
Ad campaigns featuring cuddly, anthropomorphic animals, like the Buc-ee's beaver, tend to be very successful. Rory Sutherland explains this is because they offer a brilliant solution to the problem of "user imagery" in advertising. Showing actual users of a product can be problematic because the reality might not be aspirational or could even be off-putting to a target audience.
For example, the average age of a person buying a new Volkswagen Golf is in their late 50s. However, the ads typically show 27-year-old women, a demographic that rarely buys these cars new. This is because showing the actual user base isn't the image the brand wants to project. Conversely, Rolls-Royce has a surprisingly young buyer profile, including footballers and other wealthy young people. Showing people in ads immediately brings up complex issues of class and age. What is aspirational to one person might be repellent to another.
Animals are a brilliant escape from this dilemma. A character like the Buc-ee's beaver is likable to most people, unlike a human spokesperson who might be polarizing. Rory notes that we are evolutionarily wired to notice things with faces, a phenomenon known as pareidolia. This makes animals inherently attention-grabbing.
Animals both attract attention for evolutionary reasons. We look at things that have two eyes, the whole thing. In Pareidolia, we see faces in things. We see faces in clouds and all that sort of stuff. And that's because we're evolved to be highly attuned to spotting not only other human faces, although that's obviously important, but actually spotting anything with a face.
This approach is a way of hacking perception. It taps into phenomenology, which explores the gap between objective reality and how humans actually perceive the world. A simple example is the difference between the actual temperature and the "feels like" temperature. Our sense of well-being is more influenced by the perceived temperature than the objective measurement, highlighting that our subjective experience is often more important than the raw data.
